As I reflect on my years of teaching, I think about how things have changed among the kids and among the parents. Here are some of the changes I have seen:
1) Parents don't necessarily believe the teacher when their child has misbehaved. What all parents and teachers need to understand is that children are given to us as a gift from God. It is our job and privilege to train them. ALL children will lie, steal and cheat. It is a natural process in growing up. Children need to be lovingly and continually taught right from wrong. One of my dear friends reminded me of this from a conversation we had last night, if you can gently remind a child at the moment of getting trouble what their heart feels like. You can change their future behavior and their heart a little at a time. God has given us the amazing opportunity of molding this child. A child who grows up in a loving Christian home but still misbehaves isn't a reflection of their parents. Some of those little ones that have a strong personality and likes to test their limits will grow up to be very successful adults and a man/woman of God.
2) Children think it is their right to be entertained 24 hours a day. Our society is raising up children who can't self satisfy themselves. They don't like to be by themselves without an electronic device. Children like to stay busy and while this is wonderful for them they also need to learn to have a quiet time with God daily and fall in love with themselves. Children and adults who enjoy being alone tend to be more successful in school and workplace. This build self confidence and self esteem. God created us all uniquely for His purpose.
3) Parents feel guilty if their child forgets an item or didn't study for a test. This is also a learning process. Parents and teachers need to make sure their child takes ownership of all mistakes. Even a first graders needs to take responsibility for their actions. Putting a folder, lunch box and library book in their back pack everyday is not too much to ask. Start small and build up.
4) Reading a good book is good for boys and girls alike. Reading a good book builds vocabulary, comprehension and word recognition. Read daily. Children should be read to daily until at least the age of 11.
5) Pets in the home teach responsibility and a sense of ownership in every child. While a pet is a lot of work, the growing that takes place within your child is amazing. A fish aquarium is great for a child with anxiety.
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